Don’t Compare Your Chapter 1 to Someone Else’s Last
Hey my beautiful reader,
How’s was your Saturday??? What are your plans for Sunday???
Some of you might be partying, some of you might be out in the rain with friends, some might be enjoying staying at home (like me), some might not be so happy staying at home… There are definitely some, who constantly checks their social media updates and gets sad/worried… Ummm let me explain you more…
Private life’ is called so because it meant to be private. Nowadays people have actually forgotten that we can actually eat at a restaurant without ‘checking in’ on social media. Watching movie at theater needs tickets and of course a bucket full of popcorn, not a Facebook update.
You know what is worst on social media, ‘honeymoon photos’. **like seriously ** and how can I not mention those hash tags #besthubbyintheworld (sorry, was there any competition??), #myfavoritehubby (ahem… How many do you have???) #blessedToBeYourWife/hubby (is your God added in your Facebook account??? You can thank him off the social media too. ) *drama everywhere *
Unfortunately, many people believe what they see on social media. They tend to compare their lives with theirs. They think those with frequent check-ins are having ‘happening life’. Some do think that the one with above hash tags are actually the best couple.
No…!!! What you see is only the best poses, best clicks. No body puts up sad stories, #quarrelDiaries.. Na.. No one… No one posts how much did they spend at those fancy restaurants. They don’t say that they are bankrupt on any of the medias.
I have been there, done that. But, trust me I came across certain scenarios where I have heard the ‘behind the stories’ of those ‘blessed to have you’ couples. That was the time I got to know how fake people are on social medias.
If you are one among those, who is comparing your life with others, I have a msg for you. This is my favorite one.
New York is 3 hours ahead of California but it does not mean that California is slow, or that New York is fast. Both are working based on their own “Time Zone.”
Some one is still single. Someone got married and ‘waited’ 10 years before having a child. There is another who had a baby within a year of marriage.
Someone graduated at the age of 22, yet waited 5 years before securing a good job; and there is another who graduated at 27 and secured employment immediately !
Someone became CEO at 25 and died at 50 while another became a CEO at 50 and lived to 90 years.
Everyone works based on their ‘Time Zone’,
People can have things worked out only according to their pace.
Work in your “time zone”.
Your Colleagues, friends, younger ones might “seem” to go ahead of you.
May be some might “seem” behind you.
Everyone is in this world running their own race on their own lane in their own time. God has a different plan for everybody.Time is the difference. Obama retires at 55, Trump resumes at 70
Don’t envy them or mock them, it’s their ‘Time Zone.’
You are in yours!
Hold on, be strong, and stay true to yourself. All things shall work together for your good.
You’re not late … You are not early … you’re very much On time!😊👍stay blessed.
You Are In Your Time Zone….!!!
Tomorrow is not promised. You never know where everyone is heading to. You might be comparing your first chapter with last chapter of others.
Everyone is blessed with different lives. No point in comparing or being replica of someone. Instead be original. Enjoy what you have. I am sure there are plenty who are willing to live your life.
With this I remember one more story.
Once God announced that people can exchange their sorrows with someone else’s sorrows. So he asked them to keep their sorrows on a table. When people looked at the sorrows for an exchange, everyone ended up picking their own sorrows.!!!
You never know what sorrows they are hiding behind those 500+ liked photos.
Unfortunately, most of the sorrows are self made. If you want to go and have food like them??? Go… You don’t need someone to hold your hand and make you eat. Be your own best friend. Treat yourself with great food.
As per as different ‘life events’ are concerned, when the time is right, everything will be right.
Enjoy your life. Accept the challenges because they are making you stronger. Be thankful for the tough times because they are letting you know who really cares.
Stay happy… We have only one life to live… Live it like a Queen… Or like the one ‘who doesn’t care, who the Queen is’… 💋