What is True Love According to You???

Valentine’s day haan…?? A day of celebration of most precious feeling – love…

What is love according to you…???

Updating social media with love quotes, pictures with your partner and using hash tags like #sweetheart #loveher #lovehim na.. no…

Going to posh restaurants to dine, na.

The great lovers like Romeo-Juliet, Heer-Ranja , Salim-Anarkali etc didn’t even had a social media account to ‘publish’ their love. They didn’t had Instagram to use the hash tags for their #truelove. But till date they and their love still remains with us. why??? Because of the purity… because of loyalty… Because of the commitment… so much so that they died for the sake of that one pure feeling called love. Which our ‘Tinder’ generation hardly understands.

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For me,

Love is not only a beautiful feeling… It’s mutual admiration, care and respect…

Love is commitment… Commitment to be by each other’s side till death makes us apart…

Love is a promise… I’m not talking about promise to take care of each others hearts… Na… We are humans. We tend to make mistakes. Despite these mistakes and heart breaks, a promise that we will forgive each other’s mistakes and never leave each other alone.

A promise that we will bring smiles on each other’s faces when either of them needs one.

A respect… A respect to partner and the relationship. Respect by not hesitating to shout out loud to the world that he or she is yours. Giving them respect and making sure they are respected and treated well by others too.

Love is friendship. You can hurt your lover, you can get bored by them. But friendship, na you neither hurt them nor you get bored.

Love is growing old together….

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I really feel love is where my soul can be at peace. It’s a home for my soul. Where I can be what I am… Without having to be afraid of getting judged.

I know you must be thinking that I’m being unrealistic or impractical. Sometimes, even I laugh at myself. I laugh because of my Hopeless hope for that one true love. When I almost give up on my beliefs, I always end up reading or meeting some couples who  make me believe that love still exists.

I have seen old couple, who died with a time gap of a day or so. I mean can you imagine how much the thought of living without him or her was so strong. That passion is priceless. Passion to stay loyal.

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When we are talking about love, there are also people worth mentioning about. People who end their lives because of love failures, for rejections. Phewww… If the other person does not accepts your love, doesn’t admire you.. I don’t think there is any point in wasting time and definitely not wasting your life. I know rejection hurts. Cry. Even though tears are precious but it’s Ok to shed them once in a while to make our heart feel lighter. But don’t stop your heart because you felt that rejection pain. Never.

Technically, the one who rejected you lost someone who loved. You lost someone you loved and someone who didn’t love you back. So frankly, you didn’t lose much. Oh come on, we love celebrities. They don’t even know that we exist. Still we don’t kill ourselves right… Why to make someone feel like a celebrity that too when they reject you.

Always remember we can’t force someone to love us. When the time is right, right person will come to your life and stay. You will finally find happiness and feel loved. Wait for it. Because when it happens you will feel the wait was worth it.

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Love is giving. When you are truly in love, trust me at the end of the day only thing you want is the one you love to be safe and happy. Don’t agree??? Why the love of parents is considered as one of the purest forms of love??? Because they just love us… Make sure that we are safe and happy. They don’t really expect anything in return. That’s why.

Being an animal lover, I have to give you one more example by mentioning the most loyal animal, dog. You all know dog is the most loyal animal. He loves you more than he loves himself. A dog loves you. He ONLY knows to love and protect you. Even if you feed him or don’t, love him or not. Once he considers you as his master, he will never stops loving you. If he finds any danger, dog will always face it in order to protect you. Can anyone beat this kind of love..???

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Love is everywhere. Not just in the month of Feb, but all throughout the year. You just need to acknowledge that.

Celebrate love every moment… Be it love of parents, siblings, pets, friends, partners… Celebrate it… Enjoy it… Remember, everyone has this unlimited source of love to serve. Spread your love and kindness to the world. Because more than technology and money world needs love and peace.

This valentine, be a donor of love… Not a beggar…. Love without expectation… Trust me, universe will make sure much more love comes your way…

 

Happy Friendship Day to Pure Hearted Friends…

Happy Friendship Day Everyone…!!!

World is celebrating friendship day with their human friends. Everyone has their praising words for friends. Even I have. Apart from some special human friends, I wanna tell you something about my super special friends…!!!

Who is a true friend???

True friends are those who never let’s you face problems alone. They wipe your tears and happiest when you are happy. They give their lives to save yours. They care and love… Never expect anything in return. They just listen to all your words… They might not reply but they never complain.

Do you have someone like this??? I have. touch wood

I’m blessed to have amazing parents who have gifted me a life with most amazing friends. touch wood

These special friends of mine, they don’t speak any of human languages. But we exchange words without speaking or listening. They have fur and paws. They are my most pawful friends. Yes my animal friends…!!!

If you give your heart to a human, no matter who he or she is, there are many chances they break it at some point of time. But, if you get in a sweet relationship with these furry friends, status of relationship will always be ‘committed’.

Today, on the occasion of friendship day I wanna tell you why friendship with furry friends is the best.

Read on,

  • If you have a pet, you get to experience a pure form of LOVE.
  • They don’t JUDGE you. No matter how poor or rich you are, for your pet you are his best friend. A perfect friend.

  • You might be just another friend for your friends, but for your paw friend, you are the only WORLD. **awww I have tears while writing this**
  • No matter how you look, for them you are their human. The most BEAUTIFUL human.

  • When you come back home, they don’t ask you how much you earn, what’s your designation is, what’s your marital status is. Na… They just wanna love you and need more and more CUDDLE.

  • The more you do good things for people, the more people expect. But these friends, give them little love, they will give their LIVES to you.
  • When you have pet around, you always feel safe at heart, feel wanted, feel ACCEPTED for what you are, feel confident. That’s why even science says, people with pets have less chances of getting depressed.

  • I have heard people not opting for animal adoption or giving up pet when they are planning for a kid. That’s the most stupid decision I can say. Because, apart from all above reasons, animals accept kids and love, PROTECT them like their own. They are best nannies you can ever find.

  • They do get bacterias from outside. But, it’s proved that it does INCREASE your immunity.

  • Best part of the day, coming back home. The way they welcome you… Trust me you forget all the tensions outside your door. When you enter home, you are your pet’s human. Nothing else. They feel so HAPPY and looking at them, you feel happy for your existence.

There are plenty of reasons why I love these pure hearted angels. If I keep writing, I can end up writing a huge book.

I am a proud mom of my cute kitty. I am sister to a dog (my mom is her mom so I’m her sister) and aunt to three kittens (my sis is their mom).***touch wood *** I  know it might sound crazy for you, if you are not a pet owner.

We, who have pets in their home, can relate to these. We don’t call our pet, a pet. We call them our child.

I must say one thing, if you have never adopted a pet, you are missing out a lot of pure happiness. If you are scared of animals, I would say be scared of only the most dangerous one of them all – human…!!

This friendship day, be a good friend to the furry angels around you… If you can’t afford to adopt one at home, Feed a stray dog or a cat… Start a new friendship… A piece of bread or a biscuit can change your life forever…!!!

Happy friendship day…!!!

Spread love… The world needs it more…!!!